a day to shower with gifts!… no matter what kind of shower party it is, gift giving is a must. i have attended numerous shower party, mostly bridal and indeed it is such a fun-filled event. one thing i love about the shower party is its intimate gathering which means everyone who are present in the party is a friend of the celebrant.
for those who want to throw a shower, the etiquette below will help a great deal to make a successful and non-awkward party. there are three factors to make the event possible… 1st is the hostess, a person who will organize or initiate the party, 2nd is the guests, people who are friends of the guest of honor which is the 3rd factor of the event. guest of honor is simply the person that the party is being given to.
here are the simple etiquette!
- never give your own(guest of honor) shower… this must be given by the hostess who is obviously your friend.
- as a hostess, you are in-charge to choose where to hold it, sending out the invitations and shower favors are your responsibilities too… as a hostess keep in mind that shower party is something informal so a friendly and pleasant atmosphere must be the goal.
- the hostess should only invite guests that the guest of honor knows… sorry! but this is for friends and close friends only.
- men and women are ok… don’t limit it for women’s gathering only.
- the venue should be comfortable… usually being held at the place of the hostess or any place that everyone will feel at home.
- must be a fun-filled celebration… that’s why the venue is important because of there are games and activities involve.
- as a guest of honor, you must send out a simple thank you note for the guests and hostess… a hand-written one is more personal and sincere.
- foods are served… can be held at any time of the day, depending on the availability of the guest of honor.
- 2-3 hour of celebration is enough… no need to prolong the celebration since the goal is mainly to flourish the guests of honor with gifts by doing so dull moments can be avoided.
a great music to indulge for a festive mood, why not?!… it’s not part of the etiquette but will surely make the party a blast!

the most common shower parties being thrown are for baby and wedding events. shower party as celebrated is derived from the idea of flourishing or the word itself showering the celebrant with gifts so giving gift is only but pertinent and a sure sign of etiquette … i will expound in my future posting about the etiquette in shower party which is quite extensive.
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